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Guys. They try to be helpful, they try to be sincere, they try to show you they care... but why is it, the way they show all of that tends to be the worst ways ever! Last night as Austin and I were sitting on the couch after dinner, he lays down and puts his feet across my legs, then he pokes my tummy with his foot and said, 'remember how you were excited you had more days off during the week so you could start going to the gym'... uh... what was I supposed to do? Jump up and go? I don't think so... I just gave him the biggest crusty ever and continued sitting there. My problem is, I asked him to be pushy, I asked him to be mean, I asked him to help me, but why is it when he "trys" to be all of that I resent him for it? I get so upset with myself that I have become this lazy overweight person and I get so self contious about it, yet when people try to help I get upset at them. Why does it have to be so hard? I wish that fat could just melt away without working at it... but it doesn't! It seems that I have no self control when it comes to food, I am an endless pit! I need the help and support from the people close to me, but I need to stop being so mad about it! I love Austin to death and I have asked him to help so why is it so hard for me to understand he IS trying to help?